My Boyfriend Thinks I'm gay
& dating tips
Hey there! Welcome to the fresh start of the week, where anything is possible! Mondays can be tricky, but we’ve got your back with a dose of inspiration, updates, and insights to kick off your week on the right foot. Today is all about making Mondays fun and productive.
But before we begin, here’s a small task for you:
📌 Take 5 minutes to write down one bold goal you want to achieve this week
Writing down a clear, specific goal gives you a target to work toward, preventing you from feeling lost or scattered as the week progresses. A bold goal pushes you out of your comfort zone, encouraging you to challenge yourself and stay motivated throughout the week.
Moreover, with a clear goal in mind, you’re more likely to prioritize tasks that help you achieve them, leading to better time management and overall productivity.
Now, let’s get started…
The hypocrisy of ‘some’ men
So, you won't believe what happened with this girl and her boyfriend. The other night, he casually asked her if she’d consider an open relationship. At first, she was like, “Wow, finally!” She’s been wanting to spice things up for a while since their sex life has been pretty tame.
But then, when she admitted her fantasy of watching him with another woman, he totally freaked out! He sulked for days, convinced that her wanting to watch meant she must be into women or something. It’s wild because he brought it up, but he just couldn’t handle it when she expressed her thoughts.
She’s really into him, and she thought this could be a fun way to explore together. But instead, he’s just insecure, thinking this means she’ll leave him for someone else. It’s really frustrating for her because he won’t listen. She feels like every time they talk about it, he’s just stuck in his own head. She’s starting to wonder if they can ever really communicate about this.
Honestly, I think they need to have some serious heart-to-heart conversations. She needs to set some boundaries because, at this point, it’s more about trust than anything else. It’s such a tricky situation, but I hope they can work it out.
BTW, before you go on that day, read this…
So, you're sitting across from someone at a cozy café, feeling a mix of excitement and nerves. That electric gaze makes you wonder—are they into you as much as you are into them? Relationship expert Kate Kali recently shared some fascinating insights on TikTok about the subtle signs of attraction, and I couldn't help but take notes!
📌 Touch Matters
First up is touch. If your date casually brushes their hand against yours or gives your shoulder a light tap, that’s a pretty good sign they’re interested. Kali explains that touch is a powerful way to establish a connection, especially in a dating scenario. Even small, accidental touches can signal that they’re testing the waters of physical closeness. So, if those little brushes happen, take it as a positive sign!
📌 Check Those Pupils
Next, let’s talk about eyes. Have you ever noticed someone’s pupils dilating when they look at you? It might sound a bit tricky to spot—especially with darker-colored eyes—but it’s a strong indicator of attraction. When someone finds you appealing, their body reacts by dilating their pupils, which helps them take in more of you. It’s like their heart is literally responding to their attraction! So, if you catch those pupils widening, it’s definitely a good sign.
📌 Closeness is Key
Finally, keep an eye on where their belongings end up. If you're at a café and notice that their drink is slowly inching closer to yours, that’s not just a coincidence. Kali points out that this is a subconscious move; people tend to get physically closer when they’re interested. It’s a way of saying, “I want to be near you!” So, if their stuff seems to be gravitating toward you, it’s a cute hint that they’re into you.
So, before you dive headfirst into the whirlwind of romance, keep these three cues in mind! They might just help you decide whether your date is truly into you or if they’re just being friendly.
Now, let’s play a game!
Choose Your Perfect Date
So, that’s it for today. Let’s meet again tomorrow 👋 Till then, have fun!
